How infertility can strengthen your relationship

The anxiety that has arisen over the past few years in every incipient family about whether they can acquire a child is getting older. Everything starts on a beautiful morning … a beautiful night where two people get to know each other, fall in love, love each other … and slowly begin to dream of their lives together … when they get married, how many children will do and many more that make up the thoughts for a family.

Happiness … thirst for creation, dreams, beautiful moments … all in front of them, without even knowing that all this can be ruined by the first difficulties that will arise in terms of the acquisition of a child. And somehow, a very serious test of their relationship begins, which will show for the first time the couple’s ability to manage the first difficulty of their marriage. This difficulty will reveal both the real aspects of each person’s personality and how much, of course, they can support each other.

Women with fertility problems face difficulties in their social and sexual lives, as well as difficulties in their companionship, which not only removes couples but also prevents them from accepting and dealing with reality.

In the good / easy / beautiful moments we are all well … in the difficult, however, we will see the true character of both man and woman in a relationship. With the woman being more vulnerable to the subject of the child and having difficulty managing her psychology, she needs a lot of help and support not only from her partner but also from her physician, since, irrespective of the infertility factor, she is called to lift the medical weight of creating a good embryo, implanting it in the uterus and developing it into a healthy baby.

Underweight couples are distinguished by intense fear of abandonment / rejection by their partner, anxiety about the idea that their partner will not want to stay with them, fear that their partner’s feelings for themselves are not as loud as their own, fear of losing their partner’s love, worrying that they are lagging behind other people, are experiencing higher levels of total infertility stress associated with difficulty in their social, fellow, and sexual lives.

Infertility is an inaccessible path for most couples, and there are few times that led them to emotionally, physically, economically dead ends, which exhausted them … absorbed all their energy … paths in which time gained another meaning as the clock ceased to strike for them …

Acceptance of reality requires not only great power-spiritual and mental-but also an altruistic mood not so much to the community and the settlement of the social “must” as far as your partner who stands next to you supports you is your hug, your pillow, the other half of your heart … Never suffer alone, but your soul, never forget that it is reflected in the person next to you. Support him, support him … stay with him … Relationships are not easy, the opposite. Difficulties bring us closer, strengthen our love, increase our faith … Our difficulties make us what we are and it is in our hands the way we manage them.

For all, there is a solution … as long as the infertility factors are swollen and can no longer be managed.

The couple must always be informed as early as possible before attempting to obtain a child, regardless of whether this can increase their levels of anxiety about whether they can create their own family through a physical arrest.

A great truth, however, is that infertility can irreversibly affect both the life and the relationship of the couple and break down all these beautiful dreams that they drew together shortly before … under the stars of the sky … while at the same time it can dissolve the model of a beautiful or in love man or woman … Something that is really unfair, since misinformation and management can prevent a couple in love at first to write miles of life together with memories …

Speak, open to your mate. He can help, he wants to help you. Show him the way. And you will see how much the data of your relationship will change. It is so beautiful to feel that you are listening, to feel that someone is there for you to hear you, to support you, to guide you, to embrace you. And do not forget … people are not things, they are souls … and to conquer them you have to get inside them